why does it all have to be to much at times

its one of those days where its all way too much. Just getting from one hour to the next is the biggest chore. the pain of things is too much and how do you find the courage to let go. Is it being afraid of getting hurt again, no encouragement, feeling like your never going to be good enough. How do u really enjoy the so called me time? So much in my lap to deal with, and still find time for me....to work on me, so i can feel pretty, happy, loved......Why is that one word so hard to cope with? Its is so easy to say it but you really need to mean it at times. Be encouraging, supportive, caring. It could be the one thing that someone needs. Doesn't matter who does it, just to know that someone can see what your doing is a big help and is the right thing...maybe that's it, someone to say "hey,its all good, keep going. Not being afraid because you have been hurt in the past. Do we let ourselves get weighted down over feelings that we just need to leave alone? why do we make ourselves feel the way we do? Is it the sub conscience letting us know that its tired and needs a break. needs to recharge,or forcing us to really deal with some issues we need to. My biggest question today is "If love hurts,then why do we let ourselves love?" When it is better to stop loving so you stop hurting?????

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